So tonight I was watching the movie “The Back Up Plan” cute movie. While I was watching, I was thinking of my own life, plans I made and plans that have worked out and plans that have had to change.
While some decisions have been first choice, many seem to have been “back up plans.” They are not things I would want to change, because they are the choices that have made me the person I am today. For example, I never really planned to buy a house by myself, however, I know that it is making me a stronger person. I would like to say it was making me a more independent woman, however, I think I have bought this house because of my independence. I don’t have or want to rely on anyone else. Does that make me selfish? Perhaps. Or maybe it just makes me scared to trust others.
While this is not my favorite movie, I did enjoy it, and it did make me think of all the decisions I have made and others that I still need to make. Do you have back up plans? If so, what are they?